I was going to write: I am so ready for retirement. But I’m not entirely ready for that leap of faith. And I’m not really going to retire.
I’m getting ready to spend more time being a writer and an artist, and helping my husband with his work at the mission and farming. So many things I want to do. And I’d still like to work at my current job part time, if possible.
Hey, Anything is possible!
I like getting ready. I like the anticipation. Like when my high school girlfriends and I were getting ready for our reunion a few years ago.
And when I got ready for my soulmate to find me.
I didn’t know it was going to be my high school sweetheart. I did know I needed to make room for my partner, by forgiving my X, and imagining the best possible partner for me, instead of being cynical. So I stopped trying to be cynical and pretending I didn’t want a partner. I watched hopeful, romantic movies like Under the Tuscan Sun.
“Unthinkably good things can happen, even late in the game.” I love that line!
I imagined a partner who loves dogs working in the garage with all his guy stuff. That’s how I got ready.
Now I’m getting ready to spend more time writing and doing art by doing more writing and art. Yes, I whine about there not being enough time, but I do it. I think and act in the direction I want to move in. Even if I don”t get as much sleep as I’d like.
I’m not quite ready financially to make that leap of faith, but I know that getting ready helps make things happen.
I married my high school sweetheart didn’t I?
What are you getting ready for?
Linda’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday post prompt for today was “ready.”
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The Friday Reminder and Prompt for #SoCS August 1/15
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1. Your post must be stream of consciousness writing, meaning no editing, (typos can be fixed) and minimal planning on what you’re going to write.
2. Your post can be as long or as short as you want it to be. One sentence – one thousand words. Fact, fiction, poetry – it doesn’t matter. Just let the words carry you along until you’re ready to stop.
3. There will be a prompt every week. I will post the prompt here on my blog on Friday, along with a reminder for you to join in. The prompt will be one random thing, but it will not be a subject. For instance, I will not say “Write about dogs”; the prompt will be more like, “Make your first sentence a question,” “Begin with the word ‘The’,” or simply a single word to get your started.
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August 1, 2015 at 1:40 pm
I was more or less forced into retirement, which is just as well; I was tired of the world of IT. It’s an adventure…
August 1, 2015 at 2:10 pm
That happened to my husband too, which made it so much easier for him to move south, and part of the perfect timing. It could happen to me, too. Thanks for the comment, John. I love thinking of retirement as an adventure, whether forced or chosen.
August 1, 2015 at 1:40 pm
“Unthinkably good things can happen, even late in the game.” I like that quote too!Haven’t seen this movie just might look it up. thanks!
August 1, 2015 at 2:13 pm
I enjoyed it immensely. And it moved my thinking into a more positive direction. YouTube has the whole movie. Thanks for sharing, Claire.
August 1, 2015 at 7:06 pm
ah! Thanks for the tip. I’d like to see it.
August 1, 2015 at 1:54 pm
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August 1, 2015 at 2:13 pm
Thank you, Osh!
August 1, 2015 at 4:56 pm
Giving up and retirement… Two different things I believe? My grandparents held that belief till the end and kept following their passion till they physically and mentally could. Your strength shows here. Commendable!
August 1, 2015 at 5:40 pm
Thank you so much for this encouragement, Prajakta!
August 1, 2015 at 6:06 pm
It is hard when you are retired before you planned to be. But I am ready for what is coming next. I really need a change but transitions can be hard even if you planned for it. That would be a fantasy of mine to have the funds to go write a check for a villa in Tuscany.
August 1, 2015 at 10:19 pm
It’s fun to fantasize, to dream of good things that could be. And who knows? It could happen! There’s that saying that if you shoot for the moon, at least you’ll land among the stars…. I’m hoping for a good change for you and for me. 🙂 .
August 2, 2015 at 1:20 am
I loved hearing how you prepared for meeting your soulmate. And how you are preparing to do more writing and artwork, by doing more writing and artwork. That sounds just perfect! Looking forward to hearing about how the pieces fall into place…
Peace
Michael
August 2, 2015 at 2:49 am
Thank you, Michael. I really appreciate your encouragement. I’ll keep you posted! 🙂
August 2, 2015 at 1:39 am
Lovely post Joanne, I am a retired person and I love it, having days to decide what I can do, when I can travel, who I can see, its a great life for me. But best wishes for you in what you plan to do more of.
August 2, 2015 at 2:54 am
This is what I love about connecting with retired bloggers. I love reading about what it’s like, as I aspire that kind of freedom. Thank you!
August 2, 2015 at 2:15 am
Good for you! I hope you enjoy the changes in your life. Hugs, N 🙂 ❤
August 2, 2015 at 3:20 am
Thanks, Natalie. Your grace inspires me. There have been some wonderful changes over the past few years. I’m learning to enjoy the moments.
August 2, 2015 at 3:22 am
Peace. ❤ 🙂
August 2, 2015 at 3:38 am
I like that quote. I have spent my life getting ready for…who knows what, but I hope I will be ready for it when it happens.
August 2, 2015 at 9:57 pm
Believe something special is on the way, and you will be ready. In the meantime, keep enjoying all those moments of gratitude!
August 3, 2015 at 9:46 pm
Hi JoAnne, I’m nowhere near retirement. I do feel excitement about life and everything that’s possible ~ even in the middle of my finals… I just wanted to tell you how I enjoy the energy of your post here, your words. I also very very much loved that movie, “Under the Tuscan Sun.” It really found me/or I it, at precisely the ‘readying’ moment, after a sweep of despair. I believe, too, that anything is possible. Thank you for your contribution to that cause. Ka
August 4, 2015 at 3:15 am
I’m so glad you enjoy the energy of this post. I often wonder how people will take my stream of consciousness, but I enjoy writing that way, so that must have something to do with it. Maybe I need to let go more… Under the Tuscan Sun was almost like a lifesaver movie for me. It’s my pleasure to share it, and I’m glad it showed up in my SOC. Thanks for your encouraging comment!