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Good News Tuesday for September 13, 2022: Ukraine Reclaims Territory, Blind Football in Uganda, Logging Equipment is Removed in Malaysia, Aspiring Doctor Gets White Coat, and Three Rescued Dolphins are Released in Bali

Seeking Balance One Tuesday at a Time

Ukraine Reclaims More Territory

Ukrainian troops have retaken a significant portion of land near their northeastern border as reported in this article from AP.

Playing Blind Football in Uganda

Blind Football Uganda has developed technology for visually impaired people to play football, aka soccer. After just one year, they have four men’s teams and two women’s teams, containing mixed abilities and classifications. Read about how it works from CNN.

Logging Equipment Removed from Sensitive Deep Forest in Malaysia

A Malaysian timber giant has removed logging equipment from a long-disputed area of culturally sensitive deep forest after the Penan Indigenous organization Keruan filed a police report and planned to start a blockade to protect the forest. The area is slated to be part of a new government led conservation effort. Here’s more from

Medical Student Gets White Coat in a Moving Ceremony

Aspiring doctor Maria “Robles told “GMA” she and her brother grew up in impoverished conditions in the Philippines….” Last month her brother Carlito, a P.A. “coated” her in a ceremony signifying the beginning of her medical training. GMA has this remarkable story with photos of the sister and brother as children and now living their dreams.

Three Dolphins Rescued from Resort Hotel were Set Free after Years of Captivity

After regaining their health and strength, three bottlenose dolphins were released from a sanctuary in Bali. Johnny, Rocky and Rambo were rescued three years ago from their tiny pool in a resort hotel. Before that, they’d spent years performing in a traveling circus. You can read more about their release in this article from AP which contains the video below.

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Placebo Effect (or More Fiber?)

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I’ve had annoying, but relatively mild, pain on the right side of my abdomen for the past four days. The four days part is unusual, because I’m used to my body working through things faster than that.

So, yesterday, I finally scheduled an appointment at my doctor’s office for this afternoon. Wouldn’t you know that I’m starting to feel better now. Does that ever happen to you? You schedule a doctor appointment, then  get better before the appointment. Maybe it’s the fiber I’ve added to my diet. But this NPR story, about the how the mind influences the body, makes me wonder if there is some kind of placebo effect going on.

The article is full of interesting explanations about the placebo effect, how distraction can help us cope with pain, and the power of mindfulness meditation. I knew a lot of this stuff, but it helps to be reminded. I’ve been telling my clients, “What we practice, we get better at.” So, I really like the example, at the end of the article, about how practicing the violin for 8 hours a day is going to make a person better at playing the violin. (I’m trying not to think about potential neck pain. Quick, move on to something else! Like beautiful violin music!)

If we’ve practiced worrying enough to get good at worrying, it’s going to take some times to  strengthen the hopefulness (or mindfulness) pathways in the brain, so that we get better at hopefulness, positive thinking and enjoying the present moment.

I’m definitely feeling better – not 100%, but better. I’ll probably keep my appointment, because I’ve blocked out the time, and I like my PA. I bet she tells me to eat more fiber.

Now, back to that beautiful violin music:




I recently accompanied my husband on his consult for unexpected outpatient surgery which is now scheduled for the middle of this busy month. When the doctor mentioned post-op pain meds, my dear husband shook his head. When questioned about this, he said he didn’t want any narcotics. The doctor said he’d prefer to write the script, just in case, since the pain meds can’t be called in. But he also indicated that it’s possible my husband will do okay with just over the counter pain meds. This led to a discussion about the whole dilemma of pain medication and my experience of being prescribed way more pain meds than needed for relatively minor surgeries or injuries. My experiences as an addictions counselor have likely added to my frustration.

During the consultation, I appreciated learning more about the prescriber’s perspective: doctors who prescribe less than the standard amount of pain meds, in this case, 30 pills (!), are more likely to be harassed, yelled at and even threatened by patients. They lose patients and can’t stay in business.

What’s a doctor to do?

After hearing this, I’m not as sure as I used to be. And I’m glad I don’t have to be the one between that rock and the hard place.

One solution would be to have more disposal options for unused medication. We’re learning that it’s bad for the environment to flush unused medications, and keeping leftovers around, “just in case”  increases the risk of addiction or pills falling into the wrong hands. Though Opiate/narcotic addiction is a particularly bad problem where I live, we only have two medication drop off events per year. Of course, there’s always the burial in a container of damp coffee grounds, which may be the best option we have right now.  Hill

I know this is a complicated issue. Some people legitimately need a lot of pain medication. But it’s a slippery slope for those with substance abuse and addiction problems.



Which reminds me, that recovery can be pretty good where I live, too. On Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve, there are all night  AA meetings, called Alcathons. These open meetings start at 6pm and run on the even hours until noon Christmas day and New Year’s Day ending in a shared meal. Narcotics Anonymous usually has Narcathons which are similar. I hope these are available where you live.

Here are some links that can help you find meetings:

To all those who suffer from addiction, there is help. Recovery is possible. Find a program, then work the program, every day.  Life can get better. One day at a time. Like they often say after the Serenity Prayer:

” Keep coming back, It works if you work it, but you gotta work it every day…and night.”

To all those who do not suffer from addiction, be aware this can be a hard time for those who do. Have plenty of alcohol-free beverages at your social gatherings. Label food and drinks containing alcohol. Even a taste can be a trigger. Invite a recovering friend to go to an alcohol free/drug free event.

May your holidays be holy days, full of peace and joy.

Tree in Winter Sunset