“That was then, this is now.”
Can I learn from my mistakes and not dwell on them? Yes, I can!
I can learn that back then, I got confused and got into this rebound with some one who was all so very wrong for me. Now, I have more compassion for people who stay in unhealthy relationships too long. Now, I’m with someone who is good for me.
I used to worry too much about what other people think about me. Now, it still crosses my mind, but I remind myself, I don’t need to worry about that. Now I’m focused more on taking care of myself and being real, and authentic – that word keeps popping up in my mind lately. Authentic.
Don’t you just hate it when your mind goes to something you did that you can’t believe you did? I hate it. But I must forgive myself and remember, that was then and this is now. Now I know better. Does that mean I won’t make stupid or embarrassing mistakes every now and then. No. I’ll still do that sometimes. But I can laugh at myself easier and easier. I can allow myself to be human and imperfect.
I was just thinking yesterday of something I did that was stupid and embarrassing. Now, I can’t remember what it was. I’m not going to try to rack my brain about it either. I’m sure I have the lesson somewhere in my brain without recalling exactly what happened.
Now, I will still remember many of my mistakes, and I’m just going to roll my eyes about that. I’m not going to beat myself up about mistakes I’ve made in the past, because I’m smarter than that, I’m better than that, and I deserve better….than that!
I would be remiss if I did not admit I did not know the origin of the words, “That was then, this is now.” I looked it up to find the credit goes to Susan Eloise Hinton, aka, SE Hinton who wrote the book by this title which was made into a movie.
It’s also a song by Josh Wilson:
AND then I discovered it’s also the title of an OLD song recoreded by the Monkees!
Today’s Stream of Consciousness post prompt from Linda Hill was:
…“this and that.” Talk about this, talk about that, talk about this and that, but here’s the catch: make either “this” or “that” the first word of your post. Bonus points if you can end with “this” or “that.” Enjoy!
If you’d like to join this fun, visit this link:
Here are the rules:
1. Your post must be stream of consciousness writing, meaning no editing, (typos can be fixed) and minimal planning on what you’re going to write.
2. Your post can be as long or as short as you want it to be. One sentence – one thousand words. Fact, fiction, poetry – it doesn’t matter. Just let the words carry you along until you’re ready to stop.
3. There will be a prompt every week. I will post the prompt here on my blog on Friday, along with a reminder for you to join in. The prompt will be one random thing, but it will not be a subject. For instance, I will not say “Write about dogs”; the prompt will be more like, “Make your first sentence a question,” “Begin with the word ‘The’,” or simply a single word to get your started.
4. Ping back! It’s important, so that I and other people can come and read your post! For example, in your post you can write “This post is part of SoCS:” and then copy and paste the URL found in your address bar at the top of this post into yours. Your link will show up in my comments for everyone to see. The most recent pingbacks will be found at the top.
5. Read at least one other person’s blog who has linked back their post. Even better, read everyone’s! If you’re the first person to link back, you can check back later, or go to the previous week, by following my category, “Stream of Consciousness Saturday,” which you’ll find right below the “Like” button on my post.
6. Copy and paste the rules (if you’d like to) in your post. The more people who join in, the more new bloggers you’ll meet and the bigger your community will get!
7. As a suggestion, tag your post “SoCS” and/or “#SoCS” for more exposure and more views.
8. Have fun!
March 5, 2016 at 7:15 pm
That Monkees video was a lot of fun!
I know what you mean… my mind goes in all kinds of directions, especially when I’m trying to go to sleep…
March 6, 2016 at 2:26 am
Yeah, I had fun watching the Monkees, too. It made me feel like a kid again. And Even with all I know about meditation, there are nights when my mind is like those Monkees.
March 6, 2016 at 7:09 pm
You need that. You can’t be an adult all the time. They’re all older than us and they’re still crazy. Good musicians, too.
March 8, 2016 at 4:08 am
March 6, 2016 at 4:41 am
Another wonderful stream of consciousness by JoAnna. I love your mind. It has a lot of heart. 🙂
March 8, 2016 at 4:11 am
Oh, what a perfect compliment! My heart has a lot of mind sometimes, too.
March 7, 2016 at 10:51 am
Sometimes, our minds choose to wander on it’s own path which can be annoying when it goes from pillar to post.
March 8, 2016 at 4:12 am
Yes, annoying sometimes. Interesting at others. 😉